Perplexing Austerity of LoVe

We usually misunderstand love. Love is not giving but judicious giving, judicious withholding; it is a perfect blend of praise, criticism, argument and struggle. At times we have to take painful decisions, which we should not back off from. Love is at times suppressing our ego to ensconce the other one, even if it may incommode us. In fact in love there are no two different egos, but the two souls blend together to form one consciousness, a consciousness which makes no difference between the souls and realizes one in another. Remember that spatial distances can never interfere with this divine unification of souls. Moreover they prove to be blessing in disguise in a sense that ‘distance makes heart grow fonder.’ Soul is nothing but an imposture of energy in the body, body which can be said to be a manifestation of energy. So when in love two souls unite together there is no room for impotence. Feel the surge of double energy within, i.e. love provides strength and not weakness. In love two individuals may loose their previous independence, but the satisfaction of having met our soul mate is far more potential than a slight loss of freedom. We should never lie to our muse, as we indirectly lie to God which makes punishment inevitable. Two lovers try to hide each other’s faults, they rejoice at each other’s success and accolade. They should be jealous of each other in the sense as to how come ‘you love me more than I do’. Love is a pleasant emotion coveted by many but fortuitous and blessed are only a few. So we should never let our love go away from us. As we come to realize the value of something only when it has moved away from us and mourn once we have lost it.